So yes, we have progressed. In Elaine Showalter's "Odd Women" chapter, masturbation is never discussed as a sexual alternative to marriage or celibacy. I tried to find when masturbation became publically talked about, but first found this:
London had a Masturbate-a-thon in 2006, where there was an exhibition of public masturbation
http://www.spiked-online.com/index.php?/site/article/1328
ha! It is even acceptable to respond 'yes' to questions about whether you masturbate (81% of guys said they started masturbating between ages 10-15, and 55% of gals said so). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation
But based on that data, one can see that it is still not totally acceptable for women to be 'sexual' beings. I thought the ultimate feminist would be having lots of sex (not being celibate, but doing what guys can do and women 'can't'), but the class seemed to have a different opinion. I thought the class' opinion might have been something along the lines of having a moderate amount of sex with one partner (of their choosing, so male/female) and being independent in terms of finances, thought, decisions, and feeling of self worth. The next step could be making it acceptable to have multiple committed sexual relationships (potentially male and female), which can be called polyamory.
The text also mentioned The Labouchere Amendment, which I looked up. It was passed in England in 1885, and it does not mention lesbianism. I was interested to see what the law was which convicted Wilde, since we talked about that in class when we read his book.
The section read: "Any male person who, in public or private, commits, or is a party to the commission of, or procures, or attempts to procure the commission by any male person of, any act of gross indecency shall be guilty of a misdemeanour, and being convicted shall be liable at the discretion of the Court to be imprisoned for any term not exceeding two years, with or without hard labour."
As a result of the vagueness of the term "gross indecency," this law allowed juries, judges and lawyers to prosecute virtually any male homosexual behaviour. Compared to older sodomy laws that prescribed death or life imprisonment, the law was lenient, possibly due to the wide range of acts covered. Dubbed the "blackmailer's charter," it was famously invoked to convict Oscar Wilde in 1895. Wilde was given the most severe sentence possible under the act, which the judge described as "totally inadequate for a case such as this"[2]. The law was repealed in part by the Sexual Offences Act 1967 when homosexuality was decriminalized in England and Wales, with remaining provisions being deleted later.